Not only is it good to know your own love language, but knowing those of your family and friends is also important.

Talking Points:

  • “Love languages” are the ways we feel loved and how we naturally express love.
  • There are five main love languages: words of affirmation, acts of service, gift-giving, quality time, and physical touch.
  • Knowing others’ love languages will help you care for them uniquely and direct your energy to serving them and caring for them in terms they will most appreciate.
  • You can figure out other people’s love languages by observing them, listening to what bugs them, and paying close attention to what they ask for.
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. What is your love language? If you don’t know, take this quiz.
  3. What do the people you are close to do that makes you feel loved the most? Explain.
  4. Think about the people in your life that you love. What are their love languages? How do you know?
  5. Which love language is easiest for you to use? Which is the hardest? Why?
  6. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?