Some people think that domestic violence is just the moment of abuse. But there’s a lot more going on underneath the surface.
Talking Points:
- An abuser’s core need is for power and control (center of the wheel).
- The wheel of abuse lists 8 typical tactics of an abuser (inside of the wheel).
- Actual physical or sexual abuse are often the last step for the abuser (outside of the wheel).
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1−800−799−7233
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Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Why do you think someone wants power and control of another person? What does that say about a person’s character that they would hurt another to make themselves feel important?
- What experience do you have with feeling controlled by someone? How have you responded to that control?
- Of the 8 tactics, which one is most familiar to you or to someone you know? Were you aware that those tactics were a form of abuse?
- If you are now realizing that you may be in an abusive relationship, what steps do you need to take?
- Do you know anyone who is a survivor of abuse? What have they done to overcome their situation?
- If you suspect that someone you know is being abused what can you do to help the situation and not cause the abuser to escalate?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
