Toxic people are unhealthy: selfish, moody, belittling. But what does a relationally healthy person look like?
Talking Points:
- A relationally healthy person is authentic because they know who they are and they don’t pretend to be something they’re not.
- A relationally healthy person has empathy for others and can see things from another point of view.
- A relationally healthy person bravely steps into conflict and speaks the truth in love.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Who is the most toxic person you know? What makes them toxic?
- Why do people pretend to be something they’re not? Make a list.
- “Every single human being is imperfect. When you’re healthy, it starts with being comfortable in your own skin.” Agree or disagree? Explain.
- Describe empathy in your own words. What grade would you give yourself in this area? How can you improve?
- On a scale of 1-10, how comfortable are you with stepping into conflict? Do you do it more out of love or anger?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
