It only takes 10 seconds to say something hurtful but the hurt you cause may last 10 years.

Talking Points:

  • Words are a peculiar thing- once their said, they are out there and can’t be taken back.
  • Words are powerful so use them wisely and think before you even speak.
  • “Sticks and stones….words will never hurt me” just isn’t true. Words can definitely hurt and can leave a lasting impact on someone for good or bad.
Discussion Questions:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Share a time someone said something really nice about you. How did that feel? Share a time someone said something hurtful. How did that feel?
  3. Have you ever said something to someone that you later regretted? Explain.
  4. Why are words so powerful? Why is it important to think before you speak?
  5. Are you holding a grudge against someone for a mean thing they’ve said about you? What can you do to deal with that? Is someone holding a grudge against you? What can you do about that?
  6. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?