Trust is a reactive response to trustworthy behavior. In a healthy marriage, both spouses are working hard to earn it every day.
Talking Points:
- Trust is relying on the integrity or ability of another person. That’s why the principle is – Trust is earned, not freely given.
- 3 Truths about trust:
- Building trust takes time.
- Trustworthiness can be measured.
- Trust is reactive, not proactive.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- On a scale from 1-10, rate your overall level of trust in your spouse right now. Explain your number.
- How have you viewed trust up to now- a “you” issue or a “they” issue?
- Think about a recent argument. How could trust be a core issue in that conflict?
- Review the three truths. Why is each one important? How will applying these three truths help to strengthen your marriage?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
