Don't waste your time trying to change others. It's okay to see things differently.

Talking Points:

  • Don’t waste time trying to convince others to be just like you. You don’t have the power to change people. 
  • It’s okay to agree to disagree. Let people express their thoughts and opinions and don’t judge them for their views.
  • Set a good example for your friends by giving them space to be themselves and hopefully they’ll do the same for you!
Discussion Questions:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Do you have a friend who always thinks their way is the right way? Explain.
  3. What are some areas where you disagree with some of your friends? How have you handled those disagreements?
  4. Why is it important to recognize that we only have power over ourselves, not others? What is likely to happen if we try to force someone to change?
  5. What kind of example are you setting for your friends? How do you honor their perspective, even if it’s different than yours? How can you improve?
  6. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?