Listening well is a crucial life skill, and many of us could use some practice!
Talking Points:
- Good listeners encourage us to elaborate, saying those two magic words: “Go on.” They keep our histories in mind and seem to be building up a deeper base of engagement.
- Good friends help us get past the “what” to the “why.” They help us get to the deeper attitudes that are lurking in the background.
- They know their own minds well enough to sympathize with us, even with our follies. They’re not going to shred our dignity, so we can be free and vulnerable.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Who is the best listener you know? Who is the worst? Explain.
- How good of a listener do you think you are? Explain.
- Which of the four key points above is hardest for you? Which is easiest? Explain.
- What are some other hallmarks of a good listener from your experience?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
