Good coaches have clear expectations for their athletes. Great coaches start with creating an experience.

Talking Points:

  • When coaches create an expectation before creating an experience, they take the joy out of sports.
  • When you create an expectation, your players HAVE to play for you. When you create an experience, your players GET to play for you.
  • When your athletes play with joy and passion, you’ll get the most out of them. But it has to be transformational, not transactional.
Discussion Questions:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Describe the culture of “love” that Dabo Swinney creates for his team. How does your team compare?
  3. Make a list of adjectives that your players would use for your team culture (toxic, fun, intense, etc.).
  4. What are your expectations for your athletes? Make a list. Do you enter practice each week with expectations in mind or with experiences in mind? Explain.
  5. “Rules without relationship equals rebellion.” How have you seen this principle at work in sports?
  6. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?

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