Some dads father with only actions in mind. But that strategy sucks.

Talking Points:

  • Father the attitude, not just the actions.
  • Affirm attitude adjustments, not just acts of obedience.
  • Father with the end in mind.
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. How did your dad father your actions? Give an example. Did he ever father your attitudes? Describe the difference.
  3. When is the last time you affirmed your kid? How did you do it? Were you affirming an attitude or an action?
  4. What is your end goal for fathering? Give yourself a grade on how you’re doing so far.
  5. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?