Parents aren't perfect. Work hard to have a good relationship with them and be ready to forgive when they disappoint you.

Talking Points:

  • In every situation in life you have an option: Let your circumstances make you bitter or better.
  • Whether your relationship with your parents is awesome, or awful, you are in control of you and how you react. Set the tone for the kind of relationship you want.
  • Choose to forgive for your mental and emotional health and have the courage to change the relationship if it’s not what you want.
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. What is something you are grateful that your parents have done for you? Do you express gratitude to them on a regular basis? Why or not?
  3. What are a few things you want to do just like your parents when you are older and have a family?
  4. What is something you wish your parents would do differently? Have you tried to talk to them about making this change?
  5. If you could trade parents with any of your friends, who would you pick, and why?
  6. Is there something you could do or change to improve your relationship with your parents? How important is it to you to have a good relationship with your parents?
  7. On a scale from 1-10, how bitter and unforgiving have you been toward people who have failed you? What do you need to do to make that number smaller?
  8. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?