Casey and Meygan talk about the power of pornography and how to admit it to your spouse if you have an addiction.
Talking Points:
- Porn is a fantasy that doesn’t depict real life. It’s fake and one sided because you don’t have to put in the everyday work, like a real relationship
- Porn creates unhealthy patterns of viewing something, masturbating and releasing. As time goes on, it becomes more and more challenging to be intimate with your spouse.
- You should admit your addiction to your spouse, make amends and find help.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- How is pornography just a fantasy and different from a real relationship?
- What kind of comparisons could you start making to your spouse once you begin viewing pornography? How can these comparisons harm your marriage?
- Why is it so important to admit a pornography problem to your spouse as soon as possible?
- What would be the hardest thing about admitting a pornography addiction to your spouse?
- List some ways you could get help to overcome an addiction to pornography.
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
