You teen is using drugs and you don't know what to do. The key to success lies in how you view your role in their struggle.
Talking Points:
- Kids typically start using drugs out of curiosity and to have fun. They then continue using so they won’t feel bad because of how the drugs have affected their brains. Eventually, they will be so addicted that they have to use just to feel normal.
- As a parent, you need to change your role if your teen is addicted. Instead of being a Caregiver, you have to transition into being a Landlord. This will include clear written boundaries that can be executed in a very matter of fact way.
- Nothing will work unless there are clear consequences. The rules should be fair and delivered with compassion. This will help your teen realize that there are ramifications for their actions.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What has your experience been with drugs? How have you seen addiction ruin lives?
- Based on your own experience, why do you think kids start using drugs for the first time?
- What is most challenging for you as a parent in dealing with a child who has or is using drugs? How have you tried to help your child with this addiction up to now?
- Define what you think the role of a Caregiver looks like. What about the role of a Landlord? Why does your role as the parent matter?
- How have you drawn boundaries with your kids in the past? Why are boundaries important to keep?
- Who can you reach out to for more help and encouragement on this topic?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
