The example you set for your kids goes a long way in teaching them not to compare themselves to others. Learn a few other tips that can help your kids to avoid playing the comparison game.
Talking Points:
- More is caught than taught. Your kids will pick up on the things you are saying around them. Practice an attitude of contentment instead of comparison in your own life.
- Pop their little bubble. Let your age-appropriate kids see and experience those who are less fortunate than themselves.
- Encourage Giving. Your kids will learn to think about themselves less as they learn to embrace an open-hand mentality.
- Teach your kids to be grateful. Teaching your kids to say thank you will instill an attitude of gratitude in them that will deepen as they grow.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What are some ways you compare yourself to others, particularly in front of your kids? What are some ways you can help to curb this behavior in yourself?
- Do you know of any places in your community where you can take your children to help them experience or meet others in tougher situations? Are there ways your age-appropriate children can get involved?
- Do you have a system of giving in your household currently? How can you both teach and model giving for your children?
- What are some ways to help your children remember to say thank you, not just when they are given something, but when someone does something nice for them?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
