Having a kid with a disability might sound daunting and scary. Here are some tips on how to parent a kid with special needs.

Talking Points:

  • Raise your kids to recognize that the world doesn’t revolve around them. Having a disability can make a kid the center of attention wherever they go. Help them stay humble and independent.
  • Be careful about patronizing your kid. Find ways for them to actually contribute instead of giving them proverbial “participation trophies.” This will do more for their self-worth than empty praise.
  • Treat your disabled teenager like a teenager. If you want your kid to learn to live independently with their disability, they need to be pushed to do so just like an able-bodied kid.
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. What was your first reaction when you found out that your child had special needs? Explain.
  3. What are some of the joys of having a child with special needs?
  4. What unique challenges does your child/family face?
  5. Why is it important to let your kids struggle – special needs or not?
  6. How can you help your special needs child have a healthy view of themselves?
  7. What are some ways your special needs child can legitimately contribute to the family?
  8. Is your special needs child growing into an independent adult? Explain.
  9. What have you learned about yourself as a parent of a special needs child?
  10. What would be your advice to parents who have learned that their child has special needs?
  11. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?